Well… Hello World!
Today I would love to express the lesson I learned so well, this morning actually; never compromise your standards or your expectations for people wether it be in business or your personal life. People will try to push your limits and try to lower your standards to what they want you to want or except. You can't let them! It’s not always easy. Until recently I didn’t notice how much of a people pleaser I was. I love for people to be happy, and not necessarily with me but with life in general. So, when I find myself in a situation to help someone, I try my best to get them in a happy state of mind. However, in the relationship sector I have just always wanted to make the other person happy and would forget how important my happiness was until it was too late. I would sabotage the relationship to get out of it, and found myself in this crazy cycle. Setting standards is a MUST, but sticking to them is the key. It’s not an easy task. It’s something I struggle with EVERYDAY, but the older I get and the more God puts me in the situations to until I learn from them, it will keep happening. With that being said, I hope you learn from this lesson a lot faster than I am. It’s a constant battle everyday, but I’m making moves towards exactly what I want. I guess you can’t get what you want until you decide not to deal with what you don’t.
Be Blessed
B.
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