Well I am in writing all the way from Kansas City, Kansas. I spent yesterday on the slopes of Snow Peak teaching myself how to snowboard. I also took advantage of the tubbing lanes they had. It was a great experience! It was super cold, but it was worth the trip!
The biggest lesson on this trip so far was about Acceptance. The Great Oprah Winfrey always says, "If someone shows you who they are believe them". This changed my life and how I looked at any potential relationship, whether it's personal or business. Taking a closer look at who that person is in that moment, space, and time. Not an idea of their potential (which is your unwavering hope for who they could be) or what you think they will become. Meet them right where they are in that moment. They are who they are, not what you want them to be. In a personal situation I tend to ask myself, "Can I love this person, right now, in this moment, flaws and all?" No ones perfect, and everyone has flaws but can you deal with them is the question.
I think the key to any relationship is finding someone who you are able to love through the bad. Its easy to love someone when everything is great, but to putting up with the bad is the true test. I never feel like someone should except being mistreated or being cheated on. I understand things happen however, no one should except crumbs of someones love, you deserve the whole cake. It takes time and patience, friendship, and respect.
So my advice is to love people for who they are in that moment, fight through the bad, to find the good and finally, never settle for the crumbs. You deserve someones best. I hope you all have a great day and enjoy the rest of your weekend.
Be Blessed!
B.
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